Why aren’t you married?
This is the type of question asked by your cynical relative.
Because you better and want more out of life, you attempt answer it with logical statements.
God has chosen me yet? I’m still building my career. I’m waiting till I am on a better financial footing.
This is where you wrong. You cannot answer a cynical, sarcastic question or statement with a logical one. The receiving person will not accept it. If anything he will mock it more.
Instead, ignore, insult or dismiss. But don’t to answer logically. You wont do any good.